Why does my toddler want the broken toy instead of the new one?

Toddlers often want the broken toy because it feels familiar, safe, and fun in a way the new one doesn’t.

Why it happens:

• Familiarity: The old toy has their scent, history, and routine attached to it.
• The “broken” part is interesting: A loose wheel, flap, or crack can make the toy more interactive and sensory.
• Mastery: They already know how to play with it, so it feels easy and under control.
• New doesn’t mean better: Toddlers don’t value “new” the way adults do.

What to do:

• Check safety first for sharp edges, loose parts, or choking risks.
• Don’t force the replacement if the toy is still safe.
• Offer the new toy धीरे धीरे by leaving it nearby and letting them explore it on their own.

Usually, the broken toy isn’t just “broken” to them—it’s the toy they know best.