Is it weird to prefer texting over talking?

No, it’s not weird at all to prefer texting over talking. It’s a very common communication preference, and lots of people like texting because it’s asynchronous, gives them time to think, and feels less pressure than a live call.

One downside is that texting doesn’t include tone of voice or nonverbal cues, so messages can be easier to misunderstand—especially for complicated or sensitive topics. In those cases, a call can sometimes work better.

If texting is what works best for you, it’s completely reasonable to say something like: “I prefer texting—if you need to call, please text me first.”